Why?? Lapa??

... "lapa iya enda te-antik ke aku, lapa iya enda mai aku sekali?" ko serbana kawan aku ke baru lenyau orang ke paling di ke sayau ke iya kelimpah ari Tuhan! Ninga tanya Lyn ngagai aku.... aku enda meh nemu nyaut nn wai Lyn...semina ulih ngasuh nn besabar enggau penguji ti datai nuntung nn, besampie meh nn wai, awak ke semengat niang laki nn di jaga, di ibun Tuhan ba syurga... laban iya pulai ngagai Allah Apai kitai. "Bini ni enda sayau ke laki? Sapa enda sayau ke laki? Jaie manah tetap laki, lebih agik ti laki nya cukup manah, mentas, siru enggau bini.... semua binix2 ke manah & mereti sigi sayau ke laki, laki meh orang kedua penting kelimpah ari Tuhan ba idup kitai indu/bini dlm dunia tu... laban laki meri kitai pengidup dalam dunia nyata".Jaie bakani laki, enggai meh ngasuh sida pahaii.. kruss semengat!

Semua kami ke nerima berita tu, amai terkejuttss, laban nadai kala ninga rita iya sakit....gamal tak sihat di peda ari mata kasar... tang mar, laban kitai mensia ti sakit cimit, pedis pala, pedis tubuh, nadai berumban ka ke sepital, nyamai agik nyingkau panadol....ukai nyalah ke sapax2 laban diri empu pan bakanya....Nadai di sadang sekali! Lyn nadai meh nyangka ti enda nadai kebuah ka enggau kawanx2 sama kerja ke Limbang, attend wedding kaban ti nemu laki sakit.

Recap: Malam ari 6, 10 September ...niang tu bisi madah kediri pedis pala ngagai anak iya ke tuai (Elanis), nya meh sida nadai ulih ke Lambir ngusong inik (indai Lyn)... lemai nya semina makai chicken wing, engka iya nadai selera makai, kira 8:30 mlm ngasuh anakx2 iya tinduk...bisi meh Lyn tipun ari Limbang nanya ke berita sida ke tinggal ba rumah.... "niang laki semina madah anakx2 udah tinduk....madah kediri chelap isi, baru udah makai ubat, ti nn sakit, aku ka pulai ko Lyn, enda iboh pulai, pagi pegila nn pulai" ko randau seduai malam ari 6 nya...kira pukul 2 3 dini ari anak indu (Elanis) dani nukar pampers adik iya.... meda daddy iya nadai niki ke atas, nurun ke baruh meh anak indu (Elanis); meda daddy iya galie ba sofa jari agik migai remote Tv... mua udah blue/black... lalu teepun ngagai inik ba Lambir madah ke daddy iya luput.... datai inik ba rumah kira jam 4 pagi, nya meh inik iya madah, ukai luput daddy, tang udah nadai, tubuh, kaki jari semua udah tengkering magang....naka meh penyinu kitai mensia mati enda tepadah ke nyawa diri.... ko kami ke ninga randau anak iya Elanis enggau indai Lyn ngagai kami malam ari minggu nya, ai mata kami ke bisi datai nyau terudus!! ingat ke jako wai EtE (Tupai) Life is Fragile...(today you see, tomorrow gone).

Ke temu aku niang Raymond Jini Baba tu, laki nadai maioh jako, kerja keras, rajin nulong bini iya ngerja pengawa rumah serta mentas enggau anakx2, selalu bala kaban meda iya nganjung anakx2 ngagai Sunday School, very committed, responsible and loving father & husband...(menantu ke sayau mentua indu iya, ingat ke leka sabak entua indu iya) ti iya betemu enggau kitai, senyum enda kala enda terukir ba mulut iya... ti kami duai betemu iya selalu berandau ke hal politics enggau aku.... kelimpah ari betundie, laban aku sigi rindu nundie bala kaban... sayau bedau biak udah nadai, pandak meh jako ti Tuhan udah ka ngambik nyawa kitai mensia.. nadai ngira biak, tuai... Bisi orang ke enda ngelala gamal niang tu, semina nemu nama iya aja... aku minta ampun Lyn laban ngambik gambar kita menyanak ari album FB nuan without permission, I have no bad intention... tu peminta ari kawanx2 ke nemu rita niang Raymond.... semua kaban ke ngelala nuan cukup sinu enggau rita mengejutts tu.

Errissy setaun 2 bulan ke kasih, shinu ninga iya nyabak ninga bunyi keta

kumbai daddy iya datai, antik iya datai, nadai ga daddy di peda iya malam nya.

Gambar Lyn enggau niang di KL, early this year

anak laki Ewrin umur 8 taun, anak indu iya ke tuai Elanis umur 11 taun

cukup mereti Elanis nemu amai nyaga adikx2 iya

"auk aunty" ko saut iya enggau sabak .. maia aku minta iya nulong mummy serta nyaga adikx2 udah tu... anang enda belajar pandaix2 awak ke mummy enggau niang daddy happy ko aku.. aku nyabak meh wai enggai bula, cukup sinu meda gamal anakx2 agik keremit di tinggal ke daddy sida iya....huh!! Speechless...

Gambar kenangan Lyn enggau niang laki iya Raymond Jini Baba

Sapa nyangka iya tau nadai ngenyampat nya, agik bedau biak baru 37 taun.

Doctor mengesah ke pemati iya...stroke ketegal high kulistrul.... ti iya ngagai camp, lembau ga ngenang penyamai utai di empa semua sOdapx2, red meat, seafood... tiap kali iya pulai ari camp, selalu minta bini (Lyn) ngurut tubuh iya.... nya meh Lyn selalu ngasuh iya be-check ke sepital, tang iya enda kiroh, majak ke kerja aja ko serbana Lyn.

Tu aja meh jako peransang aku ngagai nuan wai Lyn..."God knows exactly and with perfection what is being allowed to happen to you in your life at this precise moment". I believe God gives joy for every sorrow... Besabar, be Strong meh wai Lyn, ukai enda sinu cukup sinu meda kita menyanak... tang nama daya kitai mensia... semua kitai diau ba dunia injau, bilax2 masa aja meh kitai di kangau pulai ke rumah Allah Apai. Ibun, jaga memanah meh bala anakx2 seduai awak ke jadi mensia ti beguna dudi ari.... cekal ke ati nn wai ngemesai ke anakx2 kediri.... ti nuan sunyi, anang enggai, anang lembau ngangau ke kami kaban nuan, awak ke kami ulih merindang serta nulong nuan ti nuan beguna namax2 ari kami, kami enggau sedaya upaya nulong nuan wai Lyn. Minta ampun laban aku nadai ulih datai malam Rabat laban enda brapa sihat, baru udah kena "nab", ari ngubur nyau sibuk ga, tambah mega malam nya bisi attend Wedding anak kawan. Sekali agik minta ampun.

Dear Raymond... you will be missed by many especially your beloved wife & children. May your soul rests in peace with the Holy Ones...Amen.

Community Dinner

Organised by PRS... chaired by Dr Richard Will. Held at Boulevard Restaurant, Pujut on 10 September 2011. PRS is helping to get funds raising for the upcoming Dayak Convention/Event organised by all churches in M'sia - November 25 - 27, 2011. All proceeds from the Community Dinner goes to the upcoming event. Most guests came that night are church members from all churches in Miri.

iEg di lantik nyadi "komiti" taja nadai kala datai meeting

cute amai baby Rowena (uchu sis Rose P)

bala kaban ari LA..bini uncle John Ugil (baju merah)

kaban ke selalu enggau begulai...seduai bini iya

Mr Abas tuai penyambut tetamu...

Edwin benong ngalu ke pengabangx2..

Pengabangx2 ke bisi datai malam nya.....

YB Dennis Ngau...lawO karer tu ko iyO!

Captain Bernard, Chariman DBNA & wife Majuin

Pengari SPDP : Theresa & Loretta

chairman SIDS Niah & hubby...

dudi datai, Julia J (SPDP, Piasau)

St'Columba church members :Mr & Mrs James Meling

SubDeacons (backgrd)

inik (kebaya) & indai Gani (emarld kaler dress)

duduk dulu ko wai Mimie...while waiting the arrival of GOH
here comes GOH Dtk Joseph Entulu
siko ngepin bunga, sambil shake-hand enggau iEg & posing!
derma Dtk, jangan tak derma...TQ Dtk.

GOH & temuaix2 di sambut enggau taboh ari Gerempung orang indu ari gereja Good Shephard, Lutong di ketuai ke bini Dr Rakesh and penarix2 ari KPSU ti enda salah aku...

iEg pose with sis Veron (yellow blouse)

sis Meg & cousin in law Helen

Mr & Mrs Jetli Jelian & friend

The dinner starts off with a "prayer from sis Margaret" then dinner is served. MC for the night no other than our RTM Dj's Mdm Mary Bajang & Mr Simon Sutie... a short speech from the Organising Chairman, Dr Richard Will then followed by a long motivational speech from GOH Datuk Joseph Entulu....

"hot & cold" dish pembuka selera

steam-fish

Dr Richard Will delivers his welcoming speech

Mc's (Mary B & Simon S)

Mr Lippi & keyboard, di undang merindang malam nya..

Speech ke di ingat.."status kitai iban ba menua S'wak/M'sia di banding enggau bangsa bukai"; bakani cara kitai iban ulih ngangkat kediri awak ke setaraf enggau bangsa bukai....siti cara kitai iban mesti belajar "nyimpan duit" baka bangsa cina, ari nyimpan duit bangsa cina ulih kaya.... ukai "prebet" semua gaji di ulih kitai.... setuju aku enggau runding Dtk; bisi suba kaban cina kala madah ngagai aku munyi tu (ti duit gaji bisi RM1K, 50% ari duit gaji mesti di simpan) ko iya! Kelimpah ari nyimpan duit, Dtk bisi meransang kitai iban, ngambik serious pasal pengarap Kristian, laban ari bisi ngemuan pengarap Kristian ke teguh, kitai ulih ngerat ke kaul kitai sebilik enggau bangsa diri.... baka bangsa melayu, sida sigi menting ke ugama sida iya, laban nya ukai aja pengarap sida iya, tang pengidup, anak sida "ada ke dunia" terus di sembiang ba sepital, aku kala meda maia aku ngabas kaban aku beranak!! Arap ke kitai samax2 berunding ke pemanah jako peransang Datuk Joseph Entulu tu pasal pengarap enggau nyimpan duit! Aku sigi Setuju 100%....bisi sekeda ke datai malam nya madah jako iya be-unsur politics, tapi anang enda ingat idup kitai sarix2 sigi enda ulih lari ari "politics".. .penemu ke manah ambik ke lalau, think Positive!

Udah speeches, all night thru' performance (karoake, memukun) and Lucky Draws....the night ended with Group Photo with GOH and other VIPs who came..

souvenir presentation

first three lucky draws...seen Mr Lippi

Mr Pandang with "Bekikis Bulu Betis" no.

with back-dancers...led by bini Dr Rakesh

ari Niah, mai lagu rohani "Dani! Dani!"

komiti members ngira duit "suara emas"

Dtk Joseph with his modified version "Bujang Lelinggai" ukai bujang

but "dara lelinggai" landik amai! ulih nyadi composer ti enda nyadi mentehi.

team 'memukun" malam nyo...

supporting memagang guests Vipps.

(YB Dennis Ngau & YB Senator Doris Brodie)

bejoget sambil ngumpul duit

iEg ngumpul duit ari YB's ke bisi betanda atas pentas

komitix2 seen: Edwin, iEg & Abbas

rindu ga jugit ngitih ke rythm taboh tu..unik!

last 2 lucky draws

after lucky draws, group photos

organising komitix2 & VIP with GOH

~ All the Best on the upcoming Dayak Convention/Event organised by all churches from M'sia. Ti nadai 'snake melintang', iEg will be attending the Dayak Convention too.... by God's will. Till then....Stay Blessed!~

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Forever Together : 03rd September 2011

The Wedding of Kenneth Tan & Pilliser Joshua on 3 September 2011; held at Dynasty Hotel, Miri.. The groom's hails from Julau (father) and Durin (mother) and; the bride's hails from Kanowit (Bawan & Geremai)...These young lovely couple met a year ago, Kenneth works with Custom Department and Pilliser with a private clinic, as Clinic Assistant.

Besides both family members and friends, iEg was invited and seated with SIDS, Miri...Photos taken from iEg's camera.

the lovely bride & groom

Parents of the groom & bride: Hardy, Joshua, Caroline & Margaret

Receptionist, nyambut penatai tetamu

iEg & Betty (mamashabella) with Bride & Groom mothers

6-tier wedding cake

Madam Mary B...Mc of the wedding reception

Without wasting time, after the entrance of the groom & bride to the Hall, the groom (Kenneth) unveil his bride's (Pillisier) veil from her face...then the bride smile with joy....everyone applause sharing that beautiful moment!

groom unveil his bride veil

bride smile with joy

all smiles

Groom (Kenneth) & Bride (Pillisier)

Bride with her parents

Groom and his parents

Guests who came, and table no. 38 became a "mini Studio", why? semua "ratu beposing" duduk sama mija that nite, pandai indai pengantin indu ngatur mija kami..semak enggau stage, enda meh tudah iEg aka mamarazzi lelak angkat nyenip gambar hehehe

Sabugay with Pemancha Wilson Siang & wife

iEg with MamaSB aka Betty & her friends

Puteh & Mendun with their husbands

Angela & aunty Agnes with their husbands

iEg with SIDS, Miri

"mini -studio", mija 38

SIDS, Miri: Shirly, Doria, iEg & Betty (Front)
SPDP ladies: Theresa, Loretta & Julia (Back)

The night was filled with karoaking & Pocox2 by both sides of the bride & groom's family & friends; indai pengantin sama pandai belagu, merindang bala guests ke bisi datai....Apai Pengantin laki pan nemu belagu semina apai pengantin indu nadai belagu, tang bisi apai (aki pengantin indu) bisi pocox2 enggau uchux2 iya... semua family sida tu sporting magang.

Indai Pengantin indu (Margaret Endun)

SIDS, Miri back-up dancers

Indai Pengantin laki (Caroline)

with her back-up dancers

Apai Pengantin laki (Hardy Tan)...stidi Ajek, be-semengat!

Aki Denis (Aki Pengantin indu) ngari ke anak iya Joshua

Pocox2 enggau uchux2... music "Anak Kampung"

After the short entertainment, come to the serious part... cutting of wedding cake & wedding toast!!

Sealed with a kiss....so sweet & romantic!

"Wedding Toast" led by Pemancha Wilson Siang

"Long life and Happy Marriage" to Mr & Mrs Kenneth Tan

After the wedding toast, here comes the 2nd part of the night, "be-ambo isan".. drinking of Chivas, 10 person from each side (ukai nyamai ngiga orang 10 iko terror ngirup); to finish a bottle of Chivas, "One-Go Langgak" huh!! tusah be-ambO isan ti bakatu, (nyamai ngiga bangsa bukai di ambik ke menantu); while groom & bride change to their 2nd attire for the night..

Apai & Indai Pengantin Indu, ngangau ke bala kaban

kecohx2 panggau endOr sida be-ambO isan

pic below: Apai Pengantin Laki, ngulu ke bala iya

Team uhang "Julau vs Kanowit"....sama celiur haha

Here comes the stunning bride & groom

while parents kecoh be-ambo isan, bride & groom

nyandong "ai pengantin" from table to table

and beposing with guests (iEg & Betty)

ah! tu iya Apai Pengantin Indu, besampi awak ke the newly wed-couple

jampatx2 bulih anak, awak ke Indai Pengantin indu bisi "uchu" di jaga, kurang agik iya bejalai
"semina Petara aja ulih nyelara seduai"; jako keramat ari apai pengantin indu, minta

seduai "jadi/begulai sampai jemah ila".. sungguh teharu campur gumbira udah bulih menantu!

Pengudah speech by Apai pengantin indu, then speech by Apai pengantin laki, semina ngasuh isan iya ba Miri nyaga, ngiring anakx2 seduai ke sama diau ba Miri...After the speeches, apa lagi, night is still young...pocox2, drinking and let loose, karoaking the whole night thru' ..the Hotel mgmt have been generous to extend the hour till 1:30 a.m..(bulih magang bala temuai...hehehe)

Pocox2 by indu orang ulu led by Julia J & friends

Apai pengantin indu (Joshua) pun sporting malam nya

Pengari ari SIDS...Mendun Mit aka bunyau hehehe

"anang larix2, ngirup dulu"...hahaha

"cimit aja shulu" ko indai pengantin indu...

meseee nyO!! ko cigu Doria..hehehe

Udah kena "rekak ai himau enggau ngelaban ai bisa".... apa agik, gamal bala mensia....layannnsss gambarx2 seterusnya....friends/family members stayed until 1:30 a.m.. it was really a happy occassion tho' the wedding were not "grand" but everyone seems to really enjoyed themselves, thanks to the hospitality esp. Indai Pengantin Indu (Margaret Endun)... who makes the wedding reception happening!! (tu kira nuruk Endun, ti anakx2 kami kawin ila, anang enda datai wai enggau ngerami, belagu, pocox2..ti udah bisi "uchu" bai aja hehehe)

iEg, Endun & Liza

Ajek nyadong ai bisa...lapO Sabugay??

manis ai bisa...keno ko Mendun

Cha-cha a' Go-Go sida tu..."Bila Larut Malam"!

nyO sida mai lagu "ribai"....hahaha

...u dun know what love ....ko munyi leka lagu

ni ke tanda "peace", "good"..gamal lelasam peluh tusul

nama bungai "ajat" iEg & Liza?

betanda & pocox2 sampai pagi...

akhirnya... semua lelak...Selesai! ko p.ramli.

Lastly, iEg wishing the newly-wed couple Kenneth Tan & Pillisier Joshua ..Happy Marriage, may there be "love" in your life, "joy" in your heart and "peace" in your home. Terima kasih wai Endun udah ngundang aku ngagai Wedding Reception Pillisier & Kenneth.

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